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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if your DH were writing this entry, it would
most likely state: MY DW has strong opinions about everything big or small, so I have learned to defer to her and ask her opinion on even the smallest decisions because chances are—according to her—if I decide somethjng or make a choice, I’m doing it wrong or making the wrong choice.
But now she claims I am lazy and can’t make decisions and she is overwhelmed with this burden.
If I try to take things off her plate like taking our child to the doctor, she claims that this doesn’t help because I don’t take notes at the appointment the way she would. Or if I take in the task of giving out child the daily dose of required medication, she will micromanage to “make sure” that I am pouring the medication into the cup precisely the way she would do it.

She says she can’t trust me to do things and that I am lazy and stupid. And then
she wonders why I get nervous and anxious when she speaks to me this way. 
What should I do to make her happy?

……
And the answer would probably be “nothing. She is determined to be unhappy with you, OP”[/quote]

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