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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 30 year old son and my mother and her feelings are going to come before some girl I'm just dating. So if my mom wanted to take a nuclear family only vacation guess what I'm going. My family has been around my whole life and will continue to be around forever.[/quote]

Godspeed to your wife. What a nightmare![/quote]

I said a girlfriend not a wife! There's a huge difference.[/quote]

Wives were once girlfriends [/quote]

The vast majority do not play both roles.

I like that he has a bar, under which, family of origin comes first. [/quote]

I can guarantee if he is such a momma's but now and allows her to exclude his gf he isn't gonna magically grow up and put her first if or when she becomes his wife. People's personality don't just change your marriage.

If my man was fine leaving me out of vacations despite me being obnoxiously excluded despite that we were serious and a unit for things like that and he displayed momma's boy behavior I wouldn't stupidly sit around and wait for him to put me first and expect like a magical wand for it to change your marriage.

I wouldn't expect him to change his core beliefs either I would just bow out of the relationship and tell him this isn't working because clearly you aren't prioritizing our relationship and we have different priorities. I wouldn't sit around and try and change him.

I would find a man whose priorities aligned with mine and who put us first and didn't allow me to be rudely excluded.[/quote]

momma's boy*

Upon marriage*[/quote]

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