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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't believe some PPs are actually trying to make the argument that the OP is taking away vacation time from the couple by not inviting the gf. I'm sorry but this is his own MOTHER. And this is a GF (not a wife or a fiance) of a year. I think as the mother she has every right to ask for some of her own son's vacation time. The GF has to realize that they have been together a year and her BF has lots of long standing relationships that started before she came into the picture that needs to be respected as well. If the gf thinks by a mother asking her son to vacation together as a family is taking away from vacation time that she feels is "rightfully" owed solely to her than she is sadly mistaken. She isn't automatically owed all of her boyfriend's vacation time.

What if the GF requested OP's son to take a vacation just the two of them then we could say well she is taking away from vacation time that her bf could be using with his family.

Which I think would be the stronger argument because right now at the stage they are all mother and immediate family should come before gf not the other way around.[/quote]

Ha no. [/quote]

So you think a girlfriend of one year is equal to a mother?[/quote]

I think it is really weird to prioritize a vacation with mommy over a romantic interest. Really weird. Cut the apron strings. [/quote]

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