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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, OP, you are so generous to offer and your readings are very in depth. I would appreciate a reading — I don’t have a specific area as so many are full of questions for me. Maybe career (should I look for another job?) or relationship (will my marriage ever come alive again?). Thank you![/quote] Hello! You were actually next in line, so this worked out well. I’m hearing the word “Overwhelmed”. I am sensing that you feel like you need to figure this all out at once. I believe you may have a tendency to become easily overwhelmed if there is conflict in one area of your life that is not working out as you would like (and this is in regards to anything). I have an image of you slowly putting away boxes, one at a time. This says to me that you need to focus on one thing, work that out, and then progress onto the next. Walk before you run. Do not try and tackle it all at once. When we cannot focus, it is difficult to trust ourselves and we can make decisions that we later regret. you need to pick the biggest box that takes up the most space and put that away first. I feel like everything else will fall into place after that and it will become less overwhelming. That said, I am being pulled toward you marriage being what you need to focus on first. I feel like you already know the answer to whether or not it will ever come alive again. I feel like your spouse may have been the one to have changed and you are left trying to figure out what happened. You may have been feeling conflicted about this, but I see you starting to change course and working towards finding harmony for yourself. This is part of your journey and it may even lead you to places you may have never imagined…for the better. The cards that represent your current energy are the King of Swords and the Ace of Wands in reverse. I feel like you are very confident in what you want to do in regards to your marriage and career, but there is a lack of drive to pull the trigger on doing those things. That said, I feel you are more confident about what needs to happen in your marriage more than your career. In order to move forward, you need to allow that internal confidence to manifest externally as well. The cards that represent your career energy is the Ace of Wands, clarified by the Lovers. This is actually really positive and says to me you may find balance and refuge in your job at the moment. I do feel you will find more clarity in this area once you work on the marriage challenge. Sometimes we redirect our energy because we try to avoid what really needs to happen. I would hold off doing anything with your job, because you may find it to be more satisfying when other areas are more balanced. If after that you are still not satisfied…then work on this area. Remember….one thing at a time. The card that represents your marriage energy is the 7 of Wands in reverse clarified by the 3 of Swords in reverse. I feel like you are trying to hold onto to something that is no longer working. I am not saying it cannot be repaired, but BOTH parties have to be fully invested in doing the work in order for the cracks to be repaired. If your partner is not interested, or you have tried everything you can (including therapy), it may be time to finally let go. If you have not tried everything and your partner is willing to make a go at it, NOW is the time to do so. The longer you wait, the more difficult it will become. The card that represents what to work on is the 2 of Cups in reverse and the 8 of Cups in reverse. You need to work on healing yourself and learning to be okay walking away from things that no longer serve you. I’m not saying you need to walk away from your marriage, but you need to learn to be okay should it ever come to that point. I sense you may hold onto things that have run their course because you love deeply and wear your heart on your sleeve. That is a beautiful trait to have and don’t allow this situation to change that. You need people in your life who cherish you because of it. [/quote]
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