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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, he's tried several times to reach out to you and you continuously shut him down?

That should be a red flag for him. I wouldn't be surprised if he he said he was confused by your definition of "commitment" but understands now, was willing to do it, but your harsh hard-line stubbornness and personal pride and lack of communication/extend an olive branch made him change his mind.

If you react like this to this type of situation, how unreasonable will you be for the larger things in life, other big permanent decisions, and curve balls life throws at you?[/quote]

This this this

- I want another child NOW
- I want a better car NOW
- I want a bigger house NOW
- I want you to make more money NOW
- I want you to spend less time at work NOW[/quote]

You don't think 4 MONTHS is a long enough time just to decide if you want to be boyfriend/girlfriend? A lot of these guys are time wasters or only in it for the sex, and it's smart to weed them out.[/quote]

+1. I’d be offended if after 4 months of 2-3 dates per week someone said they were only 80% sure they wanted to date me.[/quote]

yeah eff that[/quote]

exactly. who hears 80% and thinks "that's good enough for me! i should hang around for a while and show i'm worth that last 20%!" helllllll no[/quote]

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