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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]The rationale is: If I divorce first, I am divorced which I don't want. if I cheat, maybe I get away with it, and maybe my sex life at home improves. If I get caught, I may get divorced which is where I will end up anyway. So no harm done [b]TO ME[/b] trying the cheating route first, especially in a no fault state.[/quote]

Fixed that for you, though you are probably too narcissistic and selfish to care.[/quote]

Exactly who is harmed? 
Kids do not know or care about parent's sex life... and if they DID care, their focus would be on the abnormal denying sexless spouse (as in why did you abandon the marriage?)
The sexless spouse does not care: because sex is unimportant.
Again: who is harmed?[/quote]

did you even read that post prior.  Everyone is harmed.

You just need to have the narrative that you aren't harming anyone by lying, cheating and betraying and stealing time from spouse and kids. We get it.  Your sh*t doesn't stink.  You are entitled. blah, blah, blah.[/quote]

Zero time stolen from anybody. The time for mistress comes from the time that would have been spent in a romantic relationship with wife. But the wife chose to be a room mate (not a partner), and that relationship no longer needs any time for romance. It is a direct swap of time/energy/attention/sex from wife to mistress, the kids are unaffected.[/quote]

In the middle of your work day?  It is a few hours you are taking from your kids---and the time and lies and planning that takes away from the energy to be focused on your kids.

I know a guy who couldn't be found when his kid was hit by a car because he was over at the whore's house screwing in her husband's bed.  He can't live that down.[/quote]

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