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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]27 year old female here......I've slept with 0 men/women. I hope I get laid before 30, and hopefully it will not be with my future husband. I want to explore my sexuality and at least sleep with 10+ guys before I settle down.

And no, I am not ugly or overweight. Most men find me really attractive and I get hit on quite often, but I have yet to find someone I really like. [/quote]

I was a 22 year old virgin.  I ended up finding a really hot guy who treated me super well, getting him to girlfriend me, and sleeping with him.  This happened within about a month.  It was great.  He was really respectful, SUPER hot (like male model status) and kind of dumb.  I dumped him a little while after because I always knew I just wanted the perfect, respectful person to "lose it to" who wouldn't break my heart or make me feel crazy strong emotions.

I would highly recommend this strategy if you are looking to just get rid of it.  I feel like the guy is going to be much more caring and respectful if he is your BF rather than a random you meet off tinder or in a bar, and over the dating process you have the opportunity to make sure he's not some psycho or into S&M and gets off on the idea of you being in pain or some horrible BS (this is important because my first time hurt SO BAD and I needed someone who would retreat and be patient with me)

So, yeah.  Good luck.  I didn't tell him a virgin till a bit before we had sex, when he was wondering why we had waited so long, and I also think that was a good strategy.  Keeps away the creeps who are after a virgin and yet gives him time to adjust to the idea that he's going to have to walk you through it, be gentle, all the stuff you need on your first time

And it was really NBD.  Don't let me scare you away- I'm just saying I'm glad I orchestrated all that because it is your first time and you want it to go smoothly- and mine went perfectly. [/quote]

I totally agree, and I plan on holding out until I get into a serious monogamist relationship.  Many thanks for your input. I think I'll take your route about not disclosing that I am a virgin until we are about to have sex. [/quote]

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