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[quote=Anonymous]30yo doter here. To answer the PP, he doesn't dote back the way I dote on him, but his version of doting is being affectionate, complimentary, and open. Which is what I need. He says thank you when I do his laundry with mine, when I go grocery shopping for the weekend, when I make dinner (I'm off Friday's, he's not). It's a nice thank you, albeit quick, but it's usually after I point out what I did (jeez that sounds annoying. Why do I have to point it out?) Sometimes I think in my head 'I just schleped around all day for us/you, it's kind of a big deal, acknowledge that...' But then I've spent time reading this thread and realize - no ones making me do these things. No ones even asking me. So, I think I'm going to scale back. Doting is in my nature so I don't think I could do/ would want to do a 180, but unfortunately I DO need the thank-you's and I DO feel annoyed if I don't get any acknowledgement. I hate admitting that after reading this whole thread. [/quote]
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