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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mid 30's single professional guy here (though I'm in NYC - I know I'm not the only one here).  As others stated, we really don't care how "successful" you are at your jobs.  It's not really a negative for me, but might be for other guys.  Most smart guys, though, DO want a smart and educated woman, just not one that uses her job to act superior to others.  A B.A. from a decent school is quite enough - if you have a Harvard JD or MBA that's cool with me - but it doesn't make you more attractive.  Being in good shape, fun, and nice do.[/quote]

Yep.  Once I learned this I found my spouse.  He is happy I'm smart and I think he appreciates the income I bring home a little too much.  That being said, we have a great time together and he's attracted to me.  I love to cook for him, have sex, dress up for him to go out, decorate our home and plan our social life.  I'm sure he appreciates these things a lot more than my career success.  [/quote]

The problem is that I don't really want to fit his idea of "fun and nice." I just want to be me, the hyper driven, educated, ambitious me. Oh well.[/quote]

So find a guy whose idea of fun and nice is the same as yours.  I'm hyper driven, educated, and ambitious, and married.  So are many, many other women in the DC area.  [/quote]

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