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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hear the men complaining about the waiting, but it is true that having sex with a guy too soon causes respect issues. If I don't care what a guy thinks of me, the reasons to delay sex are diminished.

As long as men associate a woman's value with her sexual availability, this will continue. Blame women all you want, but slut-shaming is forcing the behavior it is intended to discourage. 
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It's the man's fault women want to have their cake and eat it too.  gotcha[/quote]

It's the sexists' fault that women can't choose to have sex without being judged. Both men and women judge and slut-shame. If you engage in either, don't whine when it means you have to wait to get laid. [/quote]

It's one thing to be free to have sex. It paints a different message while, simultaneously telling one guy he's important and "let's wait," you're out banging another guy. It's deceptive. [/quote]

I agree that's deceptive, but I don't believe it actually happened to OP. It may happen everyday, but this story is a creation of OP's imagination. I'm just telling you why a woman would decide to wait with one guy and go ahead with another. [/quote]

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