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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, dating for 6-8 weeks is not "seriously dating."[/quote]

Um...yeah it is.  I can only imagine, from a man's perspective, dating a girl I really like for 6-8 weeks, spending maybe $1000 or more on the dates, having her hint at LTR potential, then walk into a bar to see her flirting drunkenly with a "jock" type.  it would be like a kick in the gut.  She admitted to fucking him but he didn't need to hear it - he guessed it already.  He spent $1000 on a woman he really liked, while she was getting fucked senseless by a man she has no feelings for.  No man with an ounce of self-respect would date that woman again.  And it's incredibly cold-hearted to spew "she can date whoever she wants" without understanding the feelings involved.  OP must understand this is over and learn from her mistake.  If I were guy #1 I might go for the bang, but I think I'd just cut off contact.[/quote]

Can you do the rest of the men here a favor and get a registered account? That way we don't all get blamed for you posts.[/quote]

He's partially right, though the monetary aspect does not help the case any.

If I'm dating a woman for two months and it seems like things are going well, I'm going to assume that, even if we aren't exclusive yet, she's not fucking somebody else during our dating. I've probably told all my friends about this great girl I've been seeing and then *voila*, there she is in a bar, dressed sexier than usual, with a jock, flirting, probably all over him, etc. Since I'm there with my buddies, I dare not go over there. I would never want to admit that "the great girl" I've been seeing is all over *that* guy. I'm either gonna hear jokes or be told she's fucking him, neither which is going to make me feel good. I realize "men don't have feelings," according to the women here, but there's no way to bounce back from that. It's deception from day 1.

Yes, ladies. She is ALLOWED to play and have sex with whomever she wants. I am not entitled to it. But I am entitled to be treated with dignity, and that does *not* include "*seeing* a future with me" while, at the same time, *feeling* the present with another guy.

Sorry. You are NOT ALLOWED to treat me in an indignified manner.

Guy 1 may have been sad and pouty, but handled it well. He could have called her a whore and ended things horribly. He did not. [/quote]

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