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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, if you wanted to work on your marriage but DH just decided not to and there was no abuse or substance abuse and he did this while you were supporting kids and household, get as much as you can from him. Don't go gently [/quote]

Yes op by all means be a leach.   Or put on your big girl pants like I did and work hard for your own money.  I can assure you it’s way more satisfying.  -a divorcee that didn’t take handouts.  [/quote]

As some have already said, it can be both. A woman is not a leech when she collects what is due to her. Marital property is not a handout. Or if it is like you claim, why does a man want a handout? It's like saying please loan me 10K and I'll pay you back... and when it's time to pay back, it's don't be a leech I want all the money for myself! The man can "work hard for his own money" once he's divorced and doesn't get free household work and childrearing. In fact if money was so important, he shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Sure, perhaps then he wouldn't have had the opportunity to have children either, but he'd have his money! See how that works?! You don't get kids raised to adults and then kick the woman out to the curb when the work is done. [/quote]

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