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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell your child the truth ...
If he/she doesn't know already.
[/quote] OP here - Well this thread was started 3 weeks ago.....not to be a jerk but if you had read through any of this you would see that stbx told our kid immediately. He couldn't wait to break the news. I was not included in that decision which is now having repercussions for stbx. Not my problem.

Update from me: DH served me with divorce papers this week but I had already spent last week interviewing lawyers and I paid my retainer last Friday, so my attorney is dealing with his and she will update me when there's anything I need to start doing. I'm not freaking out. Based on conversations with several lawyers I will not be screwed financially. I have minimal communication with stbx. He's suddenly trying to be nice about certain things. Because I basically gave him no reaction when he said he wants a divorce, other than "ok", he now seems to be working hard to get my attention and show me that he's actually a really good guy. To which I say(in my head): spare me, and save it for your girlfriend. I'm saving my energy for my legal battle, taking care of myself, and MOST IMPORTANTLY for our kid.[/quote]

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