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[quote=Anonymous]No experience with this subject but I do think for the spouse who thinks she/he is being cheated on it raises some serious trust issues in the marriage.

Been married 25 years, so this would be my advice:

Do what ever you need to do to help you through it and give yourself closure.  If that means getting details from the other woman/man, then contact that person.  Sometimes the unknown is more damaging than the reality.  If you think contacting the other person would cause you more heartache, then don't.

The big picture is that the other person isn't your problem.  The problem is can you trust your spouse to be fully committed to you and your marriage?

I would probably seek professional help first to see if the marriage could be saved.  Ultimately, however, I would need to divorce my DH if I felt I couldn't trust him or he wasn't fully committed to me.  With out forgiveness for the indiscretion and ultimately a re-establishment of trust, ill feelings and resentment would just build up and we both would be miserable in the long run.[/quote]

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