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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ll chime in, because OP I don’t want you to get hurt. These things may not go the way you hope they will. I was the OW when I was in my mid 20s. (I’m a very different person now, so please don’t judge).

I broke up with the guy when his wife found out. She confronted me about a month later. I told her point blank “your husband told me that I gave him the single best sexual experience of his life. What do you imagine we did together?” She started to tear up and just walked away. Looking back on it, I feel horrible for what I did. So just please be careful OP. A confrontation may not go the way you want. [/quote]

She was probably shocked and saddened and her husband’s horrible taste in ap, not aghast at your weird sexual dominance display, fyi. [/quote]

Exactly.  And, btw, men always say that.  My husband and I didn’t leave the bed except to get water and whatever was in the cabinets for 3 days.  We were insane. He could go several (4 times on our wedding night) times a night.  There’s nothing we haven’t done in 20 years.

But, hey, a new body is just that: variety.  A guy will always go on about that was the best blah blah blah.  Fwiw, the only thing the AP said to me is “I was always so jealous of you”.  [/quote]

Yeah that would be a lie to make you feel better. Not sure why someone would be jealous of someone whose husband cheats on them.  Nice that you had sex multiple x a night when you first met though. [/quote]

Still did during the affair and still can do it even now. Sex life was always very good.  He was a mess briefly in midlife- good friend died, dissatisfied with himself, and drinking too much. And, no, she wasn’t the type to say something to be nice. She had a mean steak and was angry at him for “using her” and treated her like a prostitute (her words). She was married too- she just wanted it to be with my husband, be her exit.[/quote]

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