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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Yes but what’s worse? Is it to to have an affair and then divorce or just divorce before you have an affair? I’m not even talking about making an effort to communicate and work with therapists to make it work because most don’t seem to be interested in that genuinely.[/quote]

This is ridiculously naive.  Of course it's better to divorce without cheating and traumatizing your spouse and kids, not to mention potentially another family.[/quote]

The rationale is:  If I divorce first, I am divorced which I don't want.  if I cheat, maybe I get away with it, and maybe my sex life at home improves.  If I get caught, I may get divorced which is where I will end up anyway.  So no harm done trying the cheating route first, especially in a no fault state.[/quote]

Right.  So why worry about anyone else as long as you are taken care of.  Got it.  Just so that I'm clear, why don't you want a divorce?  Couldn't you just end up with someone younger who will give you phenomenal sex and you may not need to take care of kids a lot.  It's a perfect life for self consideration.    [/quote]

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