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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh and on the dealing with her...  I dont know how to navigate this.  Until she becomes a step parent, she wont exist to me, meaning I will have no reason or need to interact with her.  When I see her, I guess my plan is to be business-like and cordial. In some ways, that's the best revenge because hopefully it will make her feel guilty or at least doubt whatever ridiculousness my ex probably told her about how awful I am. [/quote]

That's exactly what you should do. If the kids don't know now they will in the near future exactly what these two crumbs did. That alone will create a lot of problems, why I think they'll split up. I do think the best revenge is moving forward, and being happy. Being honest with the kids is also important. It's ok to tell them dad dated while married, which is very wrong. As another poster pointed out it's important the kids understand that's not what you do in a marriage. It shouldn't be ignored or condoned. Otherwise, I would pretend AP doesn't exist, and only be cordial to your ex minimizing any conversation or test. [/quote]

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