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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  My kids were 6 and 8 when he moved out. Yes, she was also married and has kids. She has 3, the oldest was 5 at the time.

I genuinely appreciate all the helpful comments.  Of course there are times I daydream about going psycho and slashing her tires and hanging billboards in her yard announcing the presence of a home wrecking whore.  But... I have self control, dignity, and am much happier focusing on things I enjoy about my new life.  [/quote]

OP, you rock. Have all those phantasies, be it on a Saturday night. You don't act upon them, so you're good.

I know I'm the odd one out but in my case ex told kid, daddy lied to mommy. Child therapist said, now kid needs to know the lie. Now knows, name and all. So problem solved. Ex got back together with his apprentice after 2 months. He can't and won't introduce her. Shovelled his own grave on that one. I don't mention AP anywhere outside close friends and family. When kid wants to speak about it I refer to father. Use therapist's wording, it's an unpleasant topic for mom.

You going mainly no contact and them moving into your neighborhood says it all. Don't worry. Now all you need to do is flourish right there. Get a new boyfriend or date. I got one after a month, half my age and younger than AP. You use those weekends where he has the kids to do you. The AP doesn't matter. She should be busy getting her own kids back into shape. What a family life to live?![/quote]

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