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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh and on the dealing with her... I dont know how to navigate this. Until she becomes a step parent, she wont exist to me, meaning I will have no reason or need to interact with her. When I see her, I guess my plan is to be business-like and cordial. In some ways, that's the best revenge because hopefully it will make her feel guilty or at least doubt whatever ridiculousness my ex probably told her about how awful I am. [/quote] There is no way they spend any time talking about you, OP. Seriously, let this go. You’ve created a what, 14 page thread about her at this point and are still sitting around on a Saturday night convincing yourself online how much she doesn’t bother you and you’re above this. There’s a scene in Mad Men where the little new hire gets on the elevator with Don and he’s mad Don presented the new guy’s idea as his own. He has a little tantrum and then goes “I feel sorry for you,” really thinking this is gonna hurt Don. Don owns the agency and has all the control. He responds “I don’t think about you at all.” Consider which of these you really are. [/quote]
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