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[quote=Anonymous]OP - you really should have been more direct and honest about this earlier on, and gotten a vasectomy long ago. You should definitely get a vasectomy now. Your wife is grieving the family she envisioned, and she is being selfish. I feel for her that you were not forthright, but perhaps in time her reaction will change. Infertility changed your timeline, the way and cost of getting pregnant, and it is understandable that with or without those complications people will change their minds. That said, she is incredibly selfish to want to break up your marriage so she can *may* have another kid. The person who gets the shortest end of the stick here is your, HER, child, who already exists, whom she would be ripping way from his nuclear family so chase a dream. That's not the way an adult should handle things, and perhaps she will see this, hopefully soon. You two should go to therapy. I feel very bad for your son.[/quote]
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