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[quote=Anonymous]How has this thread gone on for 18 pages? There's literally nothing to debate here.

OP has no obligation to have another kid. He changed his mind. Anyone suggesting that OP owes his wife another child is nuts. The only obligation OP has is to the future child that he DOESN'T WANT - specifically, not to bring an unwanted child into the world. Yes, would have been better if he was more honest with his wife, but he wasn't, and now that's that. And now he has to accept the consequences of that, including any feelings of betrayal she may have.

Which bring's us to the wife - it doesn't matter if OP or you or I think she's nuts for leaving her husband over this. She is absolutely free to do so. Wife is no more obligated to stay married to OP that OP is to give her another child. Circumstances changed for both of them. They both get to make a decision. Neither one may be happy with their options, but such is life sometimes. Sometimes you have to choose between two imperfect options. Who cares if you would make a different decision that OP's wife? This is her decision. End of story. [/quote]

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