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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]50/50 is terrible for the kids. They need a stable home, not back and forth once a week or for a week at a time. Most men want this to avoid paying child support. [/quote] Divorce is bad for kids in that it means they have two homes. The majority of dads want time with their kids, not to avoid child support. It is the reality of splitting up the family, kids now split time. [/quote] why do the kids typically have to be the one to change homes? Why can’t the parents be the ones inconvenienced?[/quote] My child doesn't 'change homes'. They have a home with their mother and their father. They have the things they need in their homes. They have lots of time with both their parents. And the dad wasn't trying to avoid cs, lol-and i'm the mom.[/quote] You are deluding yourself. They are definitely changing homes. It's like if you went from your kitchen to your living room. They're both your rooms but you are changing from one to another. You need to face up to this. It's harmful to your children that you won't acknowledge the burden you and your ex have placed on them.[/quote]
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