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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]50/50 is terrible for the kids. They need a stable home, not back and forth once a week or for a week at a time. 
Most men want this to avoid paying child support. [/quote]

Divorce is bad for kids in that it means they have two homes. The majority of dads want time with their kids, not to avoid child support. It is the reality of splitting up the family, kids now split time. [/quote]

why do the kids typically have to be the one to change homes?  Why can’t the parents be the ones inconvenienced?[/quote]

My child doesn't 'change homes'. They have a home with their mother and their father. They have the things they need in their homes. They have lots of time with both their parents. And the dad wasn't trying to avoid cs, lol-and i'm the mom.[/quote]

That’s nice for you, but some of us have spouses using 50/50 in states that allow it to be used for a spousal support residential deviation even if child support is based on income, they live in an Airbnb, and the child has to take everything down to shampoo and pencils back and forth with them every time because their parent says “there isn’t space.” When my child has to show up at their sport with their sports bags and a huge bag containing everything they need for a weekend down to snacks, they certainly don’t feel stable. [/quote]

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