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[quote=Anonymous]Many quiet people are adored. For example, many people love their quiet therapist. To understand why, you can try an easy therapy technique: parrot people back to themselves. If they tell a story about a wonderful dinner, you can say, “That dinner does sound wonderful.” It makes them feel understood. It encourages them to open up even more. If you do it a lot, eventually you’ll see it’s not always fun being the one sought out. Usually people are seeking you out because you give them something, like listening or care or understanding or, as you observe, fun or laughter. Small talk that settles into relationships are two people who seek each other out. It’s reciprocal. People might not dislike you at all. They might just not be getting much from you.[/quote]
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