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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sure it's hard, but the kid should be really thankful not to go through 50/50 custody BS. While they may feel untethered, at least they will have a choice of which parent to stay with, completely on their terms, instead of the misery of going back and forth while juggling HS life.[/quote]

I don’t think custody matters in HS-they can still chose[/quote]

It can matter immensely. My ex remarried and suddenly wanted 50/50 because his new wife wanted to eliminate CS so they could pay for fertility treatments.

Suddenly, he asked to take all of the time that he hadn’t taken in years and we had filled with activities. That’s a huge disruption for teens.

Some judges will listen to a 14-16 year old. Others will say the kid has to tough it out. [/quote]

Yes kids are largely treated like assets/objects in divorce. It was heartbreaking to watch my son drop a lifelong sport (he was a top ranked athlete heading for a top college ) just because dad dudnt want to drive him to practices. But also didn’t want higher CS so he just resorted to abandoning son at the screen back home on his 50% while dating around [/quote]

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