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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If everyone is cleaning up after themselves you wouldn’t need anyone to do the dishes everyone would do their own dishes. Make that the rule.[/quote]

I was the first person to respond.  Everyone cleans up after themselves in my house, but there are still pots, serving dishes, etc.  someone has to wash those, unload the dishwasher, etc.  again, I'm fine with that, but your husband sounds lazy/depressed/adhd.  Whenever I point out my dh's deficiencies around stuff like this, he lashes out.[/quote]

This is OP. He has ADHD and is depressed and[b] is medicated [/b]for both. But the messiness/disorganization still persists. [/quote]

That's probably a big part of the problem. Those meds are draining and will ruin people.

Was he like this when you married him? If so, then it seems like you would have accepted this flaw by now.

If he wasn't like this years ago, but is now, then see the first part about the medications and weaning him off them.[/quote]

This is OP. He was not like this when I married him but we did not have 2 kids or a house out in the far flung suburbs. It wasn’t until he was attempting to “juggle it all” that everything fell apart. He has been medicated for ADHD since before I met him. Depression medication started a couple of years ago after a parent’s death.[/quote]

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