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[quote=Anonymous]It also could be that DIL is stressed whenever you visit. She’s focused on the younger child, cleaning up the house, cooking and overall busy because of your visit. I have that dynamic and I’m the one that invites her over! DH wouldn’t care if the house was a mess and would offer cereal for dinner so it falls on me to do everything. It also could be something entirely else. DH’s stepmom would always comment how we were too bonded, always hovering and always had a hand on DD. She thought it was strange we didn’t just let her run around their house so we all could chat without a kid around. Well DD was two years old and they had a 120 lb dog. DH as a young teen had been bitten by one of their Chow dogs and they laughed it, said it was DH’s fault. They also had a pool steps from their family room where they kept the sliding glass door open all the time. Yeah, we hovered and only went once. [/quote]
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