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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m just done. My husband is really passive about it all because he never wants to shake the boat,that’s the main issue. Just being married for this long and he can never ever confront or call them out on it. He handed me the money in cash (dumb, it’s our joint account) to pay me back for what they stole. Just will never ever confront them. And having any kind of discussion with them is worthless, because addicts don’t admit fault ever. [/quote]

He's making it easy, then. Tell him that since he's a pushover, YOU will speak up for the both of you. You send out a general text/email/whatever to the family to announce that such-and-such members are not allowed to come over anymore. If they do, you will call the police and have them thrown out. You ask for reimbursement of what one of them stole - not to actually get it, but to shame them in front of the rest.

If they have keys, get your locks changed. If you don't have outside cameras, get some.

Tell your husband he's allowed to visit his family at their homes, but he is not allowed to invite the problem people to your house, or bring the kids anywhere near them. If that means Grandma can never see your kids again, because the drug addict might be there, too bad.

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