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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Some of the responses in this thread directly contradict each other.

Either she is totally out of control, doesn't have the tools or knowledge to calm herself down, and needs my support to learn those tools (staying with her while of course not letting her hit).

She is a sly mastermind - she can stop herself from hitting or screaming, but is taking advantage of me and I'm a bad parent letting her walk all over me. In which case I need to shut her in her room until she calms down.

Both of these cannot be true.

Based on observing her in the moment + talking to her after + reading Dr Becky, Dr Laura, Janet Lansbury, and other books about how kids' brains work, I thought it was the former. But still some people say that's wrong and the latter is true.

My brain is exploding here, ladies - what is the right answer? [/quote]

There is no one size fits all for parenting. You try it all and see what works. Just because she is having a big reaction doesn’t mean it’s not working. Try something multiple times before trying something else.

Also, we aren’t all “ladies” on this forum. [/quote]

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