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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]YEARS of concerns and requests to teachers AND principals? [/b]My kids were in public schools for 12 years and I never spoke to a principal one time. What are you asking for?[/quote]

This is the reason. OP is "that parent". Her husband isn't, at least not yet, because he hasn't been the one voicing concerns and making requests to teachers and principals for years. It has nothing to do with sexism. It has to do with compassion fatigue on the part of overworked teachers.[/quote]

100% this. It’s not female vs male, it’s you vs not you.

Staff talks. When I am invited to a meeting with parents, the history with the family is shared. “Every year mom calls a meeting to complain about something, this year it’s Larlo’s seating arrangement. Just smile and nod, nothing is ever good enough.” Or “mom never agrees to new testing and wants increased accommodations every year, hold firm if she won’t approve testing.”

When dad comes instead, it’s a fresh start. There is no history to share.

Right or wrong, this is reality.[/quote]

So, mom shows up to the IEP or 504 meetings and asks teachers to enforce the required accommodations and then when they don't because mom has a reputation for, OMG, advocating for her child, she has to call in Dad. That's so ridiculous.[/quote]

You didn’t understand what the PP was saying.[/quote]

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