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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah, you have to deal, eat the PTO. Maybe you could hire a driver for MWF or something. [b]Please don’t ask your FIL to estimate when his wife will die so you can adjust your vacation plans.[/b] You have to just deal with this. Read your post back and imagine it’s about your parents, or about yourself. It’s pretty harsh. [/quote] You are far too kind to OP. She is a terrible person. When my MIL was in a similar situation, my husband was constantly traveling to his hometown (a four hour drive). And I was going there on weekends with a toddler. I never once thought to complain. It was simply the right thing to do. I hope OP has a DIL just like her someday! [/quote] Were there two other actual children of the ill person refusing to do anything and expecting OP to bear the brunt? That’s understandable for a few days of crisis but not weeks/months. [/quote]
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