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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t think there is a “right” or “wrong” on the sleeping arrangements. DH and I had separate rooms when visiting his parents, right up until we were married. Even when we’d been engaged 6 months, wedding was in 3 months, and we’d been living together almost 2 years. They told DH that they understood we were adults but they just couldn’t bring themselves to endorse those choices. Silly IMHO, but that was their line. My parents always had us stay in one room, even when we’d only been dating 6 months. Where I think your DH DID go wrong is on his reaction to them getting a hotel. It’s ok for him to draw a line in your house (although ideally you and he would discuss it between yourselves and have an agreed-upon position, not just “his” rules). They can choose to follow those rules or go elsewhere. He can be disappointed in their choice to go elsewhere, but it’s really not appropriate to get mad about it. [/quote]
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