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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread makes me sad. Yes most women like good sex and want to get married. It is sad we live in a culture where women are afraid to voice a desire for children and marriage and a family. Sleeping around is not good for a woman's soul. [/quote]

It's not good for anyone's.  Life works best when things are in balance.  And men also want to settle down and have a family.[/quote]

Some people want to settle down (eventually) and some simply don't think that far ahead. I'm a man who married at 30, and had 4 partners prior to meeting my DW. She in turn had 3 partners prior to me. All of our partners were in the context of established relationships.

I mentioned this thread to DW and asked her if she'd have dated me if I'd told her I'd had, say, 20 partners. She said no, she wouldn't be interested in someone so cavalier about sex. I in turn wouldn't have dated her if she'd have had 20 partners. For the same reason. We both wanted someone who viewed sex as something special between intimate partners, not simply a casual encounter to get your rocks off.

I guess we're just nuts.

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