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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If there are kids involved, you don't do anything. Plain and simple. Good people don't blow up another kid's life. It makes you pretty much as bad. [/quote] Which are the "good people" here? and Who is blowing up their life? The innocent wronged spouse is in any way responsible for what happens when a married person chooses to cheat. Don't want to blow up your life? Don't cheat. Seems pretty easy! [/quote] There is no such thing as a "good person" or a "bad person", much to the chagrin of jilted people. I'm sorry. Life is messy and awful. But don't hurt kids unnecessarily. [/quote] How is honesty hurting kids unnecessarily? Telling the spouse has nothing to do with children. It has to do with another adult. What they do with that knowledge is their own business. [/quote] +1. If I was being cheated on I would want to know. I may or may not seek out a divorce but I would make choices in my best interest and in the best interest of my kids. It would be my choice on how to navigate the situation. I wouldn’t want this decision made for me by someone who feels they know what’s best for my children. [/quote]
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