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[quote=Anonymous]I found myself on here I see years later from the original post because I am now feeling the same way. My husband doesn't put effort into buying me gifts.  He just buys gifts and this year he is supposedly buying a shared gift. I don't want to share my gift. If its shared then it's really for him I feel because he could have gotten this shared gift today with me and not for me and him for Christmas. We have been together 8 plus years, I ask for nothing all year every year. I even told him he doesn't have to get me a gifts  Valentines Day because I just don't care about that. However, Christmas is my favorite holiday. I would like something thoughtful. I don't care about costs. I care about feeling like someone put effort into something. Honestly, he just doesn't put effort into anything really. I feel alone sitting next to him and the fact that he bought a shared gift and thinks it is ok just intensifies how alone I am in this marriage. I don't know what to do because he is a good man, husband, and father. I have never had any martial issues besides the fact that I feel alone being with him. I have told him this so many times and nothing has changed😔. What else can I do to change this or get it through to him?[/quote]

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