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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I look more highly upon married people than unmarried ones. Bonus points for length of marriage. It just signals maturity.

I am a young childless woman BTW.[/quote]

You clearly know nothing about marriage. My parents have been miserable for 50 years and I can barely stand to be around them, but hey, they’re married. In my opinion they both wasted their lives.[/quote]

So life is all about being happily married? Do they have friends, careers, extended family, volunteer positions?

You are such a narrow minded person.[/quote]

Actually, no, they don't have those things. My dad had a career. The rest? No. They don't have friends, they are not close to their families, they don't volunteer. There is literally nothing there. They did not build anything. They are two people who hate each other who barely speak in the same house.

I ended up in a similar marriage. Thank God, I got divorced.

Marriage does not equal success. Only a quality marriage is successful. [/quote]
Ummmm it sounds like your parents, and you and your DH, were major losers who had huge issues unrelated to marriage. Although to their credit, rather than being single losers alone and no one ever living to tell the story, your parents managed to sustain a marriage for 50 years which is no minor feat. Sounds like the better outcome, all things considered.[/quote]
NP. I think staying married where you aren’t kind to each other and don’t enjoy each other’s company is a failure. My parents were like this too. Pretty sure they stayed together for us kids and then because it was too late and too much of a hassle to do anything else. It was a bad model for me. Passive aggression and apathy. Being single doesn’t make you a loser, being stuck in an awful marriage might. It’s such a waste of a life. [/quote]

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