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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I look more highly upon married people than unmarried ones. Bonus points for length of marriage. It just signals maturity. I am a young childless woman BTW.[/quote] I would add happy to this because then to me they are living authentically. My ex’s dad cheated on his wife with men and was gay and she stayed because it was the norm. Of course I didn’t find this out till 20 years later. My ex secretly brought men into the house for sex and abused our money as well and I divorced. My oldest is gay and dating a man as a young adult who he wants to marry. It’s the same reason a marriage to a woman didn’t work for all three. Just different outcome. [/quote] I wouldn’t call the relationships you and your mother had marriages. I don’t think a marriage needs to be happy, but it needs to be based on the truth. If you were deceived or tricked into a marriage, that isn’t really a marriage. [/quote] It was his mother who stayed married to the gay dad. Yes it’s not a real marriage in the loving sexual sense but I think a lot of marriages in the past were not truly honest fulfilling marriages which is what my point was. Not everyone is cut out to be a good husband and father and wife and mother and get along well. I think people just used to stay in bad marriages more. [/quote]
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