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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why so bleak... do we really think women have to have a spouse to be happy? She's a doctor. She can organize her life as necessary to make it work, she will be financially ok, her kids will have a strong female role model, and she may or may not meet a man who can compare to prince charming here. Not that hard to find one comparable who will leave his dirty socks on her floor and fall asleep on her couch while messaging women online. If hubs is a great dad, he will continue so on his 50% of parenting time. Then she will have a built-in, trusted (ehhh) babysitter so she can travel... date... do something more exciting that get her self esteem beat down by this pos.[/quote]

I stayed with my cheater ex until my child's teens. I couldn't fathom shuttling my baby back and forth every few days. As someone said above, her husband can remarry or begin orgies in the house after divorce. It's not guaranteed that her kids would be better off.

I would honestly consider participating in his sexual phantasies (maybe it's just phantasies and he didnt act on these much yet!) It seems like the lesser bad vs divorce with all the consequences. She can still leave anytime, but she can try reestablishing marriage on new terms, and see how she does in an open marriage[/quote]

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