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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are college educated, by the end of college or grad school you have seen the whole field of potential partners. There is nothing of value that can be gained from waiting longer, the pool just gets smaller and smaller. Smart and observant people pair off early. [/quote] Maybe for men, but for women, early marriage usually means less time to figure out who you are as a person. It's good to be single and just casually dating or not dating at all so you can spend some time just being free to do what you want. This is a stereotype but men generally do just fine being who they want to be and doing what they want to do after they are married and before kids, and generally speaking they are better about being their own person and maintaining their own identity after they have kids too. [/quote] I did exactly what i wanted. I focused on my career, i pursued hobbies, i had girl trips galore and he hung out with his friends, we traveled a ton. By being together we had a lot more money, structure and stability to do things we always wanted to do. Started having kids in early 30s. This only works if you snag a good partner you are compatible with. It is bad advice to tell women to drop a guy like this because you met too early and you need to find yourself. [/quote] Yikes. There are two types of women in this world. Daughters of Eve and daughters of Lilith. Every woman is not desperate nor desire being tethered to a man or even woman. Some women such as myself desire being sovereign and some women are like you… lol[/quote]
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