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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound like a despicable person.  Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser.  10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy[/quote]
Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that. [/quote]
There is a reason: it’s you.

You tear down other women constantly.  You covet what they have while denigrating them and calling them idiots and losers.

You haven’t found true love like then because you aren’t a good person.  You are rotten inside and people can tell.[/quote]
Maybe you’re right, but I am brutally honest. I have worked for everything in my life, no one has helped me, my parents were dysfunctional, poor and uneducated I have not had an easy time. When I see other people, women and men who don’t have to work for anything, mommy and daddy buy them a car, a house, a woman’s only goal in life is to marry a successful man and have kids, and then never lift a finger, I despise this. Sorry if I sound bitter and mean, I have spent years working and trying to better myself, while watching others sit back, being given a free ride along with a loving attentive spouse who loves them unconditionally Yes I am bitter.[/quote]

I come from a really shitty environment and I have had to work like hell just to be remotely functional, and a really amazing husband did sort of fall into my lap. Some people who have had it easy in every other way don’t find the life they are looking for in life or get into crappy, even abusive marriages.  Some people who are awful get great spouses.

Life just isn’t fair. There is a lot of luck involved in love.

You are in therapy right? Because it seems like you’re carrying a lot of heavy baggage and I think you could use a break and set it down for a bit. [/quote]
No i am not in therapy, I have paid thousands if dollars on therapy to feel exactly the same.[/quote]

Therapy is not a magic fix, you have to DO THE WORK.  You don’t seem to have a ton of self-awareness, or gratitude for what you do have in life.  You husband also seems like a nonentity in your mind.  Even if I had no “passion” for my husband, I would still love and respect him as the father of my children if he were a decent guy.  You seem so wildly absorbed in your sense of grievance.[/quote]

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