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Anonymous wrote:You sound like a despicable person. Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser. 10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy

Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that.

There is a reason: it’s you.

You tear down other women constantly. You covet what they have while denigrating them and calling them idiots and losers.

You haven’t found true love like then because you aren’t a good person. You are rotten inside and people can tell.

Maybe you’re right, but I am brutally honest. I have worked for everything in my life, no one has helped me, my parents were dysfunctional, poor and uneducated I have not had an easy time. When I see other people, women and men who don’t have to work for anything, mommy and daddy buy them a car, a house, a woman’s only goal in life is to marry a successful man and have kids, and then never lift a finger, I despise this. Sorry if I sound bitter and mean, I have spent years working and trying to better myself, while watching others sit back, being given a free ride along with a loving attentive spouse who loves them unconditionally Yes I am bitter.

I come from a really shitty environment and I have had to work like hell just to be remotely functional, and a really amazing husband did sort of fall into my lap. Some people who have had it easy in every other way don’t find the life they are looking for in life or get into crappy, even abusive marriages. Some people who are awful get great spouses.

Life just isn’t fair. There is a lot of luck involved in love.

You are in therapy right? Because it seems like you’re carrying a lot of heavy baggage and I think you could use a break and set it down for a bit.

No i am not in therapy, I have paid thousands if dollars on therapy to feel exactly the same.

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Anonymous wrote:I feel like when i met this married guy, all my morals, ethics, boundaries, fell to the wayside. Nothing mattered anymore, I would do anything to get him, even taking time away from my kids. I know it’s horrible but it’s how I feel. I need to just shut off my feelings for him.

Do you realize how unstable you sound?

Anonymous wrote:I feel like when i met this married guy, all my morals, ethics, boundaries, fell to the wayside. Nothing mattered anymore, I would do anything to get him, even taking time away from my kids. I know it’s horrible but it’s how I feel. I need to just shut off my feelings for him.

Anonymous wrote:I feel like when i met this married guy, all my morals, ethics, boundaries, fell to the wayside. Nothing mattered anymore, I would do anything to get him, even taking time away from my kids. I know it’s horrible but it’s how I feel. I need to just shut off my feelings for him.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a despicable person. Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser. 10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy

Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that.

There is a reason: it’s you.

You tear down other women constantly. You covet what they have while denigrating them and calling them idiots and losers.

You haven’t found true love like then because you aren’t a good person. You are rotten inside and people can tell.

Maybe you’re right, but I am brutally honest. I have worked for everything in my life, no one has helped me, my parents were dysfunctional, poor and uneducated I have not had an easy time. When I see other people, women and men who don’t have to work for anything, mommy and daddy buy them a car, a house, a woman’s only goal in life is to marry a successful man and have kids, and then never lift a finger, I despise this. Sorry if I sound bitter and mean, I have spent years working and trying to better myself, while watching others sit back, being given a free ride along with a loving attentive spouse who loves them unconditionally Yes I am bitter.

I come from a really shitty environment and I have had to work like hell just to be remotely functional, and a really amazing husband did sort of fall into my lap. Some people who have had it easy in every other way don’t find the life they are looking for in life or get into crappy, even abusive marriages. Some people who are awful get great spouses.

Life just isn’t fair. There is a lot of luck involved in love.

You are in therapy right? Because it seems like you’re carrying a lot of heavy baggage and I think you could use a break and set it down for a bit.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a despicable person. Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser. 10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy

Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that.

There is a reason: it’s you.

You tear down other women constantly. You covet what they have while denigrating them and calling them idiots and losers.

You haven’t found true love like then because you aren’t a good person. You are rotten inside and people can tell.

Maybe you’re right, but I am brutally honest. I have worked for everything in my life, no one has helped me, my parents were dysfunctional, poor and uneducated I have not had an easy time. When I see other people, women and men who don’t have to work for anything, mommy and daddy buy them a car, a house, a woman’s only goal in life is to marry a successful man and have kids, and then never lift a finger, I despise this. Sorry if I sound bitter and mean, I have spent years working and trying to better myself, while watching others sit back, being given a free ride along with a loving attentive spouse who loves them unconditionally Yes I am bitter.

I come from a really shitty environment and I have had to work like hell just to be remotely functional, and a really amazing husband did sort of fall into my lap. Some people who have had it easy in every other way don’t find the life they are looking for in life or get into crappy, even abusive marriages. Some people who are awful get great spouses.

Life just isn’t fair. There is a lot of luck involved in love.

You are in therapy right? Because it seems like you’re carrying a lot of heavy baggage and I think you could use a break and set it down for a bit.

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Anonymous wrote:

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am not the OP, i am a different poster who relates to OP. I am far from an old lady, my crush is not 10 years younger, he is about 6 years younger which is insignificant. I am tired of everyone acting so self righteous and sanctimonious when it concerns marriage. It’s only about timing anyhow, it’s pure luck and chance that people marry a person with mutual feelings. It’s okay to have feelings for a married person, I am not disordered because of that. I’m not afraid to push social boundaries or norms, my feelings are raw and i have a strong intuition that this man feels the same. Why does a relationship with him mean that families must be destroyed? That seems a little dramatic but society tells us that’s what should happen so be it.

Stop trying to cast yourself in some rebel role to justify your lack of integrity/morals. Society tells you not to screw around with someone else’s spouse/family because it’s a terrible way to treat another person. Society needs everyone to honor the basic human contact of not harming others in order to function and progress. It’s not luck and chance that the vast majority of people enter into mutually loving marriages, it’s the fact that most people have a healthy understanding of their own emotions and needs.

I realize this, and this is purely a fantasy for me, I have not acted on this and I most likely never will. I’m unhappy with my marriage but I need to find other outlets, spend all of my waking hours with my kids, or exercise or work more, anything.

Or you could work on fixing your mental health. You seem unwilling to take accountability for that.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a despicable person. Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser. 10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy

Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that.

There is a reason: it’s you.

You tear down other women constantly. You covet what they have while denigrating them and calling them idiots and losers.

You haven’t found true love like then because you aren’t a good person. You are rotten inside and people can tell.

Maybe you’re right, but I am brutally honest. I have worked for everything in my life, no one has helped me, my parents were dysfunctional, poor and uneducated I have not had an easy time. When I see other people, women and men who don’t have to work for anything, mommy and daddy buy them a car, a house, a woman’s only goal in life is to marry a successful man and have kids, and then never lift a finger, I despise this. Sorry if I sound bitter and mean, I have spent years working and trying to better myself, while watching others sit back, being given a free ride along with a loving attentive spouse who loves them unconditionally Yes I am bitter.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a despicable person. Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser. 10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy

Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that.

There is a reason: it’s you.

You tear down other women constantly. You covet what they have while denigrating them and calling them idiots and losers.

You haven’t found true love like then because you aren’t a good person. You are rotten inside and people can tell.

Maybe you’re right, but I am brutally honest. I have worked for everything in my life, no one has helped me, my parents were dysfunctional, poor and uneducated I have not had an easy time. When I see other people, women and men who don’t have to work for anything, mommy and daddy buy them a car, a house, a woman’s only goal in life is to marry a successful man and have kids, and then never lift a finger, I despise this. Sorry if I sound bitter and mean, I have spent years working and trying to better myself, while watching others sit back, being given a free ride along with a loving attentive spouse who loves them unconditionally Yes I am bitter.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

am not the OP, i am a different poster who relates to OP. I am far from an old lady, my crush is not 10 years younger, he is about 6 years younger which is insignificant. I am tired of everyone acting so self righteous and sanctimonious when it concerns marriage. It’s only about timing anyhow, it’s pure luck and chance that people marry a person with mutual feelings. It’s okay to have feelings for a married person, I am not disordered because of that. I’m not afraid to push social boundaries or norms, my feelings are raw and i have a strong intuition that this man feels the same. Why does a relationship with him mean that families must be destroyed? That seems a little dramatic but society tells us that’s what should happen so be it.

Stop trying to cast yourself in some rebel role to justify your lack of integrity/morals. Society tells you not to screw around with someone else’s spouse/family because it’s a terrible way to treat another person. Society needs everyone to honor the basic human contact of not harming others in order to function and progress. It’s not luck and chance that the vast majority of people enter into mutually loving marriages, it’s the fact that most people have a healthy understanding of their own emotions and needs.

I realize this, and this is purely a fantasy for me, I have not acted on this and I most likely never will. I’m unhappy with my marriage but I need to find other outlets, spend all of my waking hours with my kids, or exercise or work more, anything.

Anonymous wrote:

am not the OP, i am a different poster who relates to OP. I am far from an old lady, my crush is not 10 years younger, he is about 6 years younger which is insignificant. I am tired of everyone acting so self righteous and sanctimonious when it concerns marriage. It’s only about timing anyhow, it’s pure luck and chance that people marry a person with mutual feelings. It’s okay to have feelings for a married person, I am not disordered because of that. I’m not afraid to push social boundaries or norms, my feelings are raw and i have a strong intuition that this man feels the same. Why does a relationship with him mean that families must be destroyed? That seems a little dramatic but society tells us that’s what should happen so be it.

Stop trying to cast yourself in some rebel role to justify your lack of integrity/morals. Society tells you not to screw around with someone else’s spouse/family because it’s a terrible way to treat another person. Society needs everyone to honor the basic human contact of not harming others in order to function and progress. It’s not luck and chance that the vast majority of people enter into mutually loving marriages, it’s the fact that most people have a healthy understanding of their own emotions and needs.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a despicable person. Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser. 10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy

Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that.

There is a reason: it’s you.

You tear down other women constantly. You covet what they have while denigrating them and calling them idiots and losers.

You haven’t found true love like then because you aren’t a good person. You are rotten inside and people can tell.

Maybe you’re right, but I am brutally honest. I have worked for everything in my life, no one has helped me, my parents were dysfunctional, poor and uneducated I have not had an easy time. When I see other people, women and men who don’t have to work for anything, mommy and daddy buy them a car, a house, a woman’s only goal in life is to marry a successful man and have kids, and then never lift a finger, I despise this. Sorry if I sound bitter and mean, I have spent years working and trying to better myself, while watching others sit back, being given a free ride along with a loving attentive spouse who loves them unconditionally Yes I am bitter.

am not the OP, i am a different poster who relates to OP. I am far from an old lady, my crush is not 10 years younger, he is about 6 years younger which is insignificant. I am tired of everyone acting so self righteous and sanctimonious when it concerns marriage. It’s only about timing anyhow, it’s pure luck and chance that people marry a person with mutual feelings. It’s okay to have feelings for a married person, I am not disordered because of that. I’m not afraid to push social boundaries or norms, my feelings are raw and i have a strong intuition that this man feels the same. Why does a relationship with him mean that families must be destroyed? That seems a little dramatic but society tells us that’s what should happen so be it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like a despicable person. Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser. 10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy

Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that.

There is a reason: it’s you.

You tear down other women constantly. You covet what they have while denigrating them and calling them idiots and losers.

You haven’t found true love like then because you aren’t a good person. You are rotten inside and people can tell.