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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound like a despicable person.  Half your posts are tearing down his wife who you have zero personal relationships with.

You are an old loser.  10-years older than him with your peri-menopause grandma panties in a twist.

I’m sure everyone in the office gossips about you fawning over this younger guy[/quote]
Life has given me crap so far regarding relationships, I have worked my ass off, trying to be the best person I can be and I look around and I see lazy idiotic women who had their ‘soulmates’ just fall into their laps. I deserve better than what I currently have, sorry, yes it saddens me, I hate seeing happy couples. I will never ever ever have that. [/quote]
There is a reason: it’s you.

You tear down other women constantly.  You covet what they have while denigrating them and calling them idiots and losers.

You haven’t found true love like then because you aren’t a good person.  You are rotten inside and people can tell.[/quote]
Maybe you’re right, but I am brutally honest. I have worked for everything in my life, no one has helped me, my parents were dysfunctional, poor and uneducated I have not had an easy time. When I see other people, women and men who don’t have to work for anything, mommy and daddy buy them a car, a house, a woman’s only goal in life is to marry a successful man and have kids, and then never lift a finger, I despise this. Sorry if I sound bitter and mean, I have spent years working and trying to better myself, while watching others sit back, being given a free ride along with a loving attentive spouse who loves them unconditionally Yes I am bitter.[/quote]

For someone who has worked sooooo hard in life, you seem completely unwilling to do the basic work needed to be a mentally healthy and decent person.

Indulge the limerence if you like, pursue this guy who is over medicated, married, and doesn’t know you exist, but it’s going to end badly, mostly for you. Even if you only linger in your feelings, it’s still going to feel awful after awhile.  Good luck![/quote]

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