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[quote=Anonymous]it doesn't seem like OP or her DH have had a frank discussion yet with them about expectations. Not that I blame OP or her DH in any way, since I think OP's expectations are absolutely the norm. I just think it would be best for all if they said to the BIL very clearly: We're upset that you offered our house to someone without our permission and that you invited guests to our house while you were there without our permission. Please understand that anyone using our house--including you--will need to clear it with us in advance, and we need to be aware of all people that will be at the home. We thought that was pretty clear before, so we do not feel comfortable allowing you to use the home without us there from now on. Then you can move past it after you clear the air.[/quote]
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