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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Weird follow-up.[/quote]

Totally disagree. OP I will happily read updates about this for the next several years. [/quote]

Me, too. And I disagree with the PP that some big announcement is warranted. OP and DH will just not share any dates they won’t be using the house. Ever. The sister/BIL abused their generosity and felt a sense of ownership that they didn’t have.[/quote]

We’ll then you need a good lock to the pool area and cameras. I guarantee they will expect to stay there again. They will probably bring it up over Labor Day manipulating that you’ll want to avoid a blow up with the kids there.

It’s less drama to just matter of factly tell them in advance of the future change. [/quote]

Thankfully they can change the codes at any time and just not give them to SIL.

OP, thanks for updating us. That answers the question about why BIL's brother felt like going there might be an option . . . they'd been before. And yeah, I wouldn't be happy about someone using my vacation home and me never knowing.

We got to our vacation house last week (which is a temporary place while we rebuild our regular place) and there was this horrible stain (it looked like when a zit explodes and bleeds a little) on the top sheet AND bleeding through to the fitted sheet. When we are not here the construction crew for our rebuild will be here because otherwise they have to drive 1.5 hours each way every day. But we have an agreement that we will leave each other clean sheets.

My husband was like, "Are you SURE they didn't change the sheets? How could you tell?" I was like [side eye]. "YES I'm sure."

I also use a totally different quilt when we are here because I do not know these people.

Should I leave them dirty sheets tomorrow?  :lol: [/quote]

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