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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jesus bloody christ, if having sex with your spouse is so horrible that you think taking out the garbage is much more worth you time , then you need a.lobotomy.  oh.wait you'd need a brain first.[/quote]

You just don't get it. You don't listen. You cannot understand anyone's perspective than your own. You are rude and condescending.

[b]Gee...can't imagine why your wife won't touch you.[/b] [/quote]

That last comment does so much collateral damage. Yes, the PP you're responding to is being obtuse. But the "just-so" stories where a wife will want to have sex with a husband if only he'd be a better listener and more attentive just aren't true in a lot of cases. Creating a presumption that a wife's lack of sexual interest is a reflection on a husband's worth as a man and as a husband makes it so much harder for couples to work through these things. If a wife gets some horrible disease, it's much easier for a husband to live without sex without a lot of resentment. Because he knows it's not her judging him as unworthy. [/quote]

It is absolutely the case that my friends who don't want their husbands it's because the husbands criticise them, belittle them, take them for granted, are rude and selfish. Resentment is a powerful libido killer.[/quote]

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