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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel sorry for the spouse when one decides to come out as transgender years after marriage and as a total surprise. Ask me how I know. My husband told me he feels like a woman and wishes he transitioned years ago. At this point in his life he doesn’t want to undergo any drastic changes but is currently in therapy dealing with how he’s feeling. I’m just waiting for the day he wants to officially become a she. I think it is such a betrayal to get married knowing you have all of these feelings which could blow up the marriage. I’m sorry I’m heterosexual and have zero attraction to women. It’s a horrible position to be put in as a spouse and I feel like they are often forgotten while everyone celebrates the courage of the transgendered individual coming out. [/quote] PP, I am very sorry. What a painful position you are in, on top of everything else that is going on is the world. Your husband is obviously in pain too. Perhaps the necessary attention we are now giving to trans people and trans issues will mean that going forward, people like your spouse will transition earlier in live, avoiding the distress and anger you both are experiencing right now. I wish you the best.[/quote] ^life, not line.[/quote]
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