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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I still think OP sounds like a jerk, but some devil’s advocacy: DH has a company. A lot of the value of the company, to his investors, is that he’s running it and they trust him. If we got divorced and suddenly I owned half his share, the company would be worth less to his investors because they don’t trust ME. It would be reasonable, if we got divorced, to structure any settlement so that I didn’t get his share of the company. Is it possible that’s the kind of thing OP is talking about and just coming off baby because he’s a moron?[/quote]

It had to be stringent enough for his girlfriend to dump him.

By his own admission, OP loved her, thought she was the one, everything was great. He wanted to marry her. When he brought up the details of his prenup she left. This was a woman in her 30’s who wanted a family and had lived with OP for a year and yet she walked away. That should tell you everything you need to know about how “reasonable” OP’s prenup is.

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OP here. She didn’t want to sign the prenup because she wanted access to my money, not my business. I helped her a lot with paying off all her debt, buying her a new car, buying the house she wanted over my preference, etc. I loved her but I know she loved my money more. I still let her keep the new car, her ring, and never asked for the money that I paid down her debt. [/quote]

OP, what exactly were the terms of the prenup?  Understand that it is pretty reasonable to insist that what you accumulated prior to marriage remains yours.  I don't think anyone would have a problem with that, I mean no reasonable woman would.  Now, the money accumulated from the moment you were married are typically halfsies.  So what exactly did you want her to leave behind? [/quote]

OP here. I already said many times what is in the prenup. I responded to the question above. [/quote]

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