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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Every other woman poster on DCUM has men "hitting on me" regularly. They all have to turn men down all the time.
I do not buy it. Only the very elite (in terms of looks) women will have this happen, and they are very, very seldom posting about it.
Another poster said it best - men will take action (i.e., approach) a large number of women in the hopes that these women will have sex with them.
However, these same men consider virtually all of these women unsuitable candidates for an LTR or marriage. I am sure the "30s" men you prefer will gladly stop by for a night; however, they are not looking at 38 year old woman as anything more than a rest stop.

When I was in my 20s the 20s guys were all looking at any women for mostly sex. Some women sleep with the guys first date and ended up marrying them so [b]why is looking for sex bad [/b]according to you to [b]put down attractive women in their 30's[/b]?[/quote]

Read my post.  I never said looking for sex is bad.  I pointed out that "having men hit on you all the time" does not mean you are attractive.

You are confusing "attractive enough to have sex with" - which for most men covers a very wide population - with beautiful enough to attract a mate that most other women would desire for the same reason.

If you are looking for sex, I hope you find and enjoy it.  However, you are not attractive simply because men will have sex with you.  It is much more likely that your appeal is based on your willingness to have sex, not your appearance.  Now, this is not true in every case and there are a number of women on DCUM who are very attractive.

Again, however, most of the women that use the fact that men will sleep with them as evidence that they are attractive are not nearly as attractive as they are suggesting.

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Mn "play the numbers game".  If you act interested in enough women, a certain percentage will be interested (because they think the man is interested).  Of those, a certain number of women will have sex right away. So, men who are hitting on women really have nothing to lose, even if you aren't that good looking. [/quote]

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