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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]His idea of dividing all the family responsibilities:  I’ll do my best and she’ll do the rest.   [/quote]

Yeah, essentially this for us, too. More like: I do what I feel like, when I feel like, and she'll do the rest.[/quote]

Ha!  I have told my husband that he is like the first roommate to move out.  Takes a few of the bigger, obvious things, but then leaves all of the little crap that no one really wants, but which is somehow 80% of what is there.  [/quote]

The core issue in all your marriages is your inability to communicate with your husbands and plan a fair division of responsibilities.

Are you really so helpless that your DH can just do whatever he wants and you accept it? Pathetic! Do better![/quote]

You can plan all you want, but you can’t force an adult to do things they don’t want to do.   What would it take to get you to go over all the mouldings in your home with a toothbrush daily?   I bet you’d do it if I put a pistol to your head, but other than that...[/quote]

You are an adult. So is the other person. You are married. Presumably you love each other. If you can't communicate your requirements to them and get them to cooperate, then you suck at adulting and you suck at communicating.[/quote]

Not sure what world you operate in, but when a grown adult can’t handle life, telling him over and over again to handle it better does not get Defective. So your only option is to leave or put up with it. He likely knows that. It sux. [/quote]

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