Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "whats the core issue in your marriage"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]His idea of dividing all the family responsibilities: I’ll do my best and she’ll do the rest. [/quote] Yeah, essentially this for us, too. More like: I do what I feel like, when I feel like, and she'll do the rest.[/quote] Ha! I have told my husband that he is like the first roommate to move out. Takes a few of the bigger, obvious things, but then leaves all of the little crap that no one really wants, but which is somehow 80% of what is there. [/quote] The core issue in all your marriages is your inability to communicate with your husbands and plan a fair division of responsibilities. Are you really so helpless that your DH can just do whatever he wants and you accept it? Pathetic! Do better![/quote] You can plan all you want, but you can’t force an adult to do things they don’t want to do. What would it take to get you to go over all the mouldings in your home with a toothbrush daily? I bet you’d do it if I put a pistol to your head, but other than that...[/quote] You are an adult. So is the other person. You are married. Presumably you love each other. If you can't communicate your requirements to them and get them to cooperate, then you suck at adulting and you suck at communicating.[/quote] I bet you poop smells like roses too. Aren’t you great! Aren’t you proud of yourself being so big! Come here, teach us all, how you manage to repeatedly say “you suck” to strangers and yet be so royal with your spouse. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics